{"id":16109,"date":"2025-03-11T15:18:56","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T15:18:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new454545.addedsense.eu\/our-topics\/partnership\/comportement-en-cas-de-separation\/"},"modified":"2025-06-11T14:49:09","modified_gmt":"2025-06-11T14:49:09","slug":"how-to-behave-in-the-event-of-a-separation","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/our-topics\/partnership\/how-to-behave-in-the-event-of-a-separation\/","title":{"rendered":"How to behave in the event of a separation?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<p>It is devastating to be suddenly and unexpectedly faced with the prospect of separation from one&#8217;s partner.\u00a0 Often men do not talk about their dissatisfaction and their unhappiness and remain silent right up to the point where it is no longer possible to save the relationship.\u00a0 But women too also avoid saying anything.\u00a0 The two partners withdraw from one another, distance themselves from each other, end the relationship within themselves.\u00a0 The other person is presented with a\u00a0<em>fait accompli\u00a0<\/em>at a stage when it is virtually impossible to go back.\u00a0 Some partners stay together for the sake of their children until the situation becomes intolerable.\u00a0 Nevertheless, the idea of a separation has taken root in their head.\u00a0 A sudden separation strikes the other person like a thunderbolt and can have disastrous consequences: many people sink into despair, their self-esteem is seriously undermined and some feel totally destroyed.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone seriously envisaging divorce should confront their partner with their doubts about the relationship as soon as possible in order to clarify the situation.\u00a0 Should the relationship nevertheless end in divorce, the partner would at least have had the chance to make an effort to save it.\u00a0 Explaining the reasons for the break-up also makes it easier to accept the loss.\u00a0 It is important not to destroy all that has been shared together, however great the difficulties at the end of the relationship.\u00a0 Anger and denigration are often the means used to facilitate a move towards separation.\u00a0 In general, the decision is not an easy one either for the person who leaves.\u00a0 Facilitating the break-up by denigrating the other person exacerbates his or her loss.\u00a0 Devaluing the time shared together is particularly wounding and destructive for the person who remains.\u00a0 In spite of everything there should be an obligation to show respect and honesty towards someone whom one once loved.\u00a0 A separation is carried out correctly if honesty, esteem and recognition of the life shared together can be safeguarded, however difficult this may seem.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is devastating to be suddenly and unexpectedly faced with the prospect of separation from one&#8217;s partner.\u00a0 Often men do not talk about their dissatisfaction and their unhappiness and remain silent right up to the point where it is no longer possible to save the relationship.\u00a0 But women too also avoid saying anything.\u00a0 The two&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15229,"parent":16019,"menu_order":13,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-16109","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/16109","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16109"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/16109\/revisions"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/16019"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15229"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/454545.lu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16109"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}